Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Wedding RINGS.
I knew I wanted a plain gold ring because I really really wanted to never ake my ring off and I knew I would feel like I had to work without it if it was diamond encrusted :) Im just really paranoid I guess. Anyway, the woman who served us was really nice, and at first she showed me this beautiful diamond ring that suited my e-ring perfectly. It looked really beautiful and I still think about it lovingly, but I turned it (and its $1000 price tag) down for a plain gold ring. Andrew got his too. If you've seen the 'good ring pictures' post below I think the rings appear in those, but heres a few anyway.
It cost us $393 for both of them. So pictured is $3988 worth of jewellery... eek.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Felt.
I made this rainbow bunch for Andrew for his birthday.
Friday, December 12, 2008
good ring pictures
Thursday, December 11, 2008
The 1950s
Im in love with the 1950s. I didnt know I was untill a short time ago, when I was on weddingbee.com going through miss strawberry shortcakes archives. When I found all her vintage resources I realised that everything I love in terms of fashion and accessories is actually 1950s inspired. Its such a beautiful and innocent time and style.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Tuesday the 9th of December.
So far I have bought a dress and decided against wearing it, drifted between not wanting a reception at all and wanting the historic courthouse resturaunt at cleveland point. Ive wanted purple and green, all black, all white, pastels and rainbow as our wedding colours, and Ive adjusted our theme countless times. This may be considered the past-time of a 'bridezilla'. Or it may just be the activities of an eighteen year old fiance who never wants to regret anything about her wedding day. Ultimately I know that it wont matter whether I have a vintage 50s theme or a country england theme - what matters is marrying my bestfriend of 5 years on the day my grandparents married, 56 years before. This is, by far my favourite wedding 'detail'.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Vintage wedding.
I have decided, despite my love for the country and pastel roses that the theme of our wedding is going to be my grandma and grandpa. We are getting married on the same day as they did, and I deffinately want a traditional wedding with a 1950s feel :)
Friday, November 28, 2008
24/99
1. Started your own blog
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii*
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland
8. Climbed a mountain...
9. Held a praying mantis
10. Sang a solo
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris*
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France*
20. Slept on an overnight train*
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitch hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon*
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice*
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise*
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person*
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied*
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person*
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David*
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant*
44. Visited Africa*
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person*
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris*
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55.been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China*
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial*
71. Eaten Caviar
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square*
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person*
80. Published a book*
81. Visited the Vatican*
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem*
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Dress-love.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Bridesmaids
Jo and Amber are two of my three bridesmaids and they are so short that all the 3/4 length dresses look full length on them :)
Amber and Jo liked this dress, but its not very bridesmaid-ey. maybe if the top was higher and the hem longer ;)
These dresses were very peasant-ey and they made Amber and Jo's top half look chunkier.
This only came in a small size (6) so Amber couldnt try it... its nice.
Ive got some hot bridesmaids :)
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Wallace Bishop 2.
I really didnt expect anyone to read the previous post :)
Friday, November 7, 2008
Organised.
There is this one, which is beautiful... I love how its not so lacy, and a bit more modern. pearls match my theme too. I am only going to have one garter, as Im not doing the garter toss. I might keep my garter around a photoframe or something after the wedding, and this would look really good. I like the tradition of garters and what they mean. Since their meaning is applicable to me I am happy to wear one, not as a reception tradition, but as a symbol.
And then there is this one-
Its very nice too, I think what I like about this one is that it seems more sturdy than the one above, and also I like the little key. I may try and find a key charm on ebay and I could buy the top one, but diy a key onto it :)
Another wedding issue- im falling less and less in love with the idea of a reception. I wont be able to get away with not having one, but ill keep the fantasy alive for awhile longer :)
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Wallace Bishop.
I was planning on buying one from there, but now I will never go there again. We went to Prouds afterwards and asked the same question about the gold and she told us that 9 ct will damage an 18ct gold engagement ring.
So, we've decided to go looking at diamonds international in the after christmas sales.
I wanted to do that anyway!
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
The best day the world has seen (at least) this year.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Election
Gosh, I will be praying so hard!
Change of government is always good, as we ourselves learnt just last year- with the election of Kevin Rudd- what a relief! So, change is always good... particularly in governments in which the president has been prove a liar, was a failure at every business he ever ran before becoming the president, and then commenced to destroy the biggest business in the world and also who may or may not have caused the events of 11th September 2001.
This a conspiracy theory I believe due to the research Ive done and listened to... it seems impossible to believe that the planes did that much damage etc... research for yourselves, start here if you want.
Anyway, since no one else reads this anyway and it is like my diary.. i can say what I want!
In my opinion George Bush has proven his stupidity in his, what, 8 years?
4 years ago, around this time I was expecting the Americans to have learnt their lesson, particularly on the wrongs of creating an excuse to start (no not a war) a bombardment on a particular country. Back then I was thinking, 'they'd have to know better by now'. I was disapointed. It made me think that Americans care little for what is 'right' according to the bible and common sense. Killing innocent men, women and children is wrong on all levels. It is more wrong than giving pregnant teenagers the choice to murder their unborn children. ultimately it is up to them whether they murder them in real life at the hand of a doctor or in their hearts when they wish that they could have been able to... its biblically considered murder either way.
Basically I will be terrified if the republicans get in. Another 4 years of killing and conspiracies and trying to be God.
Friday, October 31, 2008
Post high school weight.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Guests.
Pretty close to having decided on my wedding hair, too!
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Religion.
Here it is-
Religion.
My religious beliefs dont fit into any one religion. I am confusing and complicated and this is what causes alot of my inner conflicts.
I believe that Jesus and God are two seperate beings with the same purpose. I believe that they are OF one idea and reason for being but theyre two- not 'three in one' as so many churches believe. I think that 'three in one' is illogical.
I believe that RELIGION matters little. I dont care what religion someone is... they can be a jehovah's witness, mormon, muslim or Jew. If they believe in God and try to follow what he says then that is enough. Many churches have a THING against JW's in particular and it just proves that they are hypocrites. Most of the time they make uneducated comments about them anyway! Also, I love muslims and this worldwide hate for them just makes me like them more!
I dont like churches. I know I should, but I dont. They are full of flawed people. The ministers are not perfect either... and they admit it, so why should we be told by them not to gossip if they are the biggest gossips of all? I believe going to church is important- to be around people like you and for encouragement. And to give tithes etc, but I dont think that it is so important that you need to go twice a day. I also dont think that 'going to church' and 'spending time with god' can be considered the same thing or even similar. Anyone can see that.
I believe that an individuals relationship with God is private. I very much disagree with praying in groups FOR other people. My youth, when I went. used to pray in groups about an issue, or many issues, but they did not get an individual person to stand in the middle of a circle to be prayed for when they didnt ask for it. And they're pentacostal too! It is almost vulgar to insist upon praying for someone in public. This is how I think praying for people should go. If you think you need to pray with or for someone, you should go to them and tell them. Or do it by yourself, when you are praying at night- im sure god is not going to not listen to you because you are alone, instead of being in a group of 15 speaking like a motorbike.
That brings me to another issue. Speaking in tongues. I understand that it is a gift, but it is also a gift that isnt given to everyone. Therefore i believe that it is not meant to be a public thing and perhaps should only be revealed when alone or in a small group of people who know about it. My reason is that uneducated people- or young christians are not going to understand that not everyone gets to do it and they will think "oh thats what im supposed to do!" and they will mimick it. Which , i dont know about you but it seems like it would be blasphemy or something to me. Also, some may think 'its not about what other people think, but isnt it our job to tell people about God? well what sort of job would we be doing if we told them but then damaged their growing knowledge with our insensitivity?
Ok, holding your hands up in the air when singing at church is also something I think should be private. Even I do that when i am home alone, but at a church it is inappropriate, in my opinion. However, Andrew is right.. if only on this point it IS about a persons motives. I think that this act is something that a minister or anyone really, in a church judges the congregation on. If you look out and see every hand raised Im sure most people who only look at the surface would think that everyone was into all the singing and stuff, and if they didnt see any of them they would think everyone was asleep or drunk or maybe just not a christian anymore. This is a VERY shallow thing to judge people on. family backgrounds and personal backgrounds have a LOT to do with why someone does this or not. I think that the shallowness of it is pretty much a reason NOT to do it. Some people may even do it just to show off- isnt that admirable?
I believe when the bible said not to make any graven image that included crosses! I believe that a method of execution has no place hanging on a wall in a church or dangling from someones body parts. I have often considered finding a charm of an electric chair to hang around my neck to prove a point. NO GRAVEN IMAGE. If you need a cross to remind you about the god you serve you are not a very good servant!
Now, Im sure this will be shocking but I dont believe in Satan! Or atleast in the same way that so many others do. I do not believe that he runs around tempting everyone to kill themselves or rob a bank. I believe he is there, but has no power and is somewhat irrelevant. He was never GOD, he always had less power than him, so why do so many christians suddenly want to believe he has almost equal power? The evil being that tempts us to do bad things is ourselves! Humans have free will and so obviously sometimes we will choose to do the wrong thing. Now, why give the devil credit for your own stupidity? Im sure he'd like it too! Stop empowering something that has no more power than you do yourself! I think that this popular image of the devil was made up by a man who wanted to believe he was some sort of powerful enemy that you need to overcome- to satisfy his boyhood dreams of 'slaying the dragon' or catching the bad guys.
Above all, I am conservative- but that is what i think we are supposed to be. I dont think we are supposed to be advertising our individual holiness. I love the idea of someone sitting on a mountain overlooking all that god created and having a conversation with him. Like a best friend. Like someone that you tell everything to and cry to and arent scared around. I love the idea of sitting in a cottage thing with andrew and a dog and having complete faith that everything is going to be okay. My image of perfect christianity is far from what I see in pentacostal churches. Im sure that it is far from what I would see in any church.
I wrote all of that awhile ago, and I still hold those opinions, however I have more evidence to back those opinions now, after about a year. This blog isnt about that extra evidence. It is about the need for a denomination. I have survived my whole life attending churches that did not hold the same opinions on the details as I hold. This fact has just illustrated to me that denominations are not as significant as some people think. Really, the only division I find relevant in christianity is the Catholic/Protestant seperation. I am, and always will be a fan of the reformation, due to the high level of corruption present and historically weaved into the Catholic Church.
Seperations between groups like the Methodists, Anglicans, Baptists, Pentecostals, Lutherans, and Christadelphians seem pointless to me. These groups have such slight differences with each other that its a job to actually discover them! So, Im basically saying that denominations are stupid. Everyone has a slightly different opinion when given the chance to put thought into what they're hearing... there could be billions of different denominations all because God gave us an imagination and descernment.
I certainly have a different opinion to most, and Ive been involved in churches that disagree with is all my life. Ive been apart of Alexandra Hills Church of Christ, Cleveland Baptist, The Rock Christian Church (Pentacostal)and Bayside Christian Family Church (Apostolic), and I hold one of the most different and passionate opinions on the details of christianity of anyone I have come into contact with so far.
I love passionate essays :)
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Colours dilemma.
I like green as the main colour now, and I think its better for a day wedding anyway.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Proposal
So I will write this story down here before I forget it, because I find myself forgetting bits of it all the time.
Ok, So for the previous week Andrew managed to convince me and then unconvince me repeatedly that I would have a diamond by Saturday the 2nd of August.
First he would say ' we should both get the night off' and id get all excited and then he'd say' oh, it doesn't really matter'. So I woke up on Saturday morning confused and slightly annoyed. But I chose to think of it as a relaxing day with Andrew, and I thought that if that was all I got out of it, it wouldnt be wasted at all!
So he picked me up on Saturday morning and we went to wynnum. We went to a second hand bookshop and I bought a book Ive been wanting for ages. Then we went for a walk along the waterfront.
As we were getting out of the car, I followed andrew to the boot because he 'had to put something away' he stood there with the boot open for ages untill I walked away! haha. While we were walking Andrew kept making me do things like climbing childrens play equipment, swinging on the swings and standing in different positions. It must not have seemed right to him because next thing I knew we were back in the car, going to visit Matthew. This made me think he wasnt going to propose that day- who goes to his friend's house before he proposes to his girlfriend? We were there for awhile, during which time Andrew spilled all his lemon lime and bitters on his gear stick and steering wheel.
After leaving Matt we drove to Hawthorne and got on a city cat. We got off the city cat at southbank, bought some lollies and walked all the way across the bridge to the botanical gardens. We sat up a tree for awhile, and this is where I thought he was going to do it- I would have loved to be proposed to in a tree!
We got out of the tree when these strange men started looking at un as though we were the strange ones. We made our way back across the bridge, went to boost and then got back on the city cat. So, basically it was 3:00 and still no proposal.
So, we got back in the car and drove to my house... I think I fell asleep on the way. Anyway, I knew we were going to the courthouse resturaunt that night so we got changed and sat on my bed for awhile. We talked about Mel and Rhys wedding, which was the next saturday and I said that I hope I dont get really jealous that Im not engaged, while watching their wedding. Andrew said " you wont". :) Anyway, Andrew wanted to pray, and Id never done that with him before, so I was kind of nervous but I did it anyway. We went to the courthouse resturaunt and it was really yum- except for the cocktail Andrew made me drink- Chocolate Bunny :( Its sad that it has such a nice name.I think I just hate alcahol.
Andrew got a text message halfway through our dinner from Ben, and he texted back saying that I was getting drunk- I deffinately wasnt!We got up and paid, and Andrew spent AGES in the toilet. We drove to one of the little raby bay beaches and I really didnt want to get out because it was so dark, but I did anyway. There was a funny little man with a bag of what looked like orange peels walking along the path...It was kind of like he was a murderer disposing of the evidence.
We walked to the beach and then Andrew said he had to run back and 'take off his shoes'. We were standing on the beach (we could only tell it was the beach because it felt like sand- couldnt see a thing!) and Andrew said " I love you" and I said " I love you too".
Then there was a long gap and I thought, ok he'll do it soon. "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" at that I though, hes DEFFINATELY going to do it. Then he got down on one knee, though I could hardly see what he was doing. I was smiling so hard now, and he said "Will you marry me". :):):)I can't remember what I said straight away, but I do remember saying YES. Although Apparently he didnt hear because after lots of hugging he said "So, that's a 'yes', right?" We had to run back to the car so I could see the ring and it is the best one I've ever seen. I couldn't have chosen a better one.
We rang my mum first, and then his... his mums reaction was 'thats odd'. She wanted to know where Andrew got the money from-haha. We rang my dad next, and then All our friends. Afterwards Andrew informs me that he'd decided if I didnt pray with him he wasn't going to do it that day... :) lucky I did!This day was the best ever! I love my ring!
Monday, October 6, 2008
Sunday, September 28, 2008
My First Wedding Board.
Ok, no one who is going to be at my wedding reads this anyway, so im safe.
My Wedding will be on the Saturday the 6th of March 2010 at 10.30 am. Ive decided on my dress, the colours, the groom :) and most of the bridal party.
My Bridesmaids are Jo, Amber and Ashleigh. If Andrew chooses to have four groomsmen, then Ill choose another Bridesmaid.
Engagement Party is on this Saturday... :)
Oh, and today we got a full cutlery set from Curly... so happy about that!
Love Emily.
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
18/09/08
BUT STILL!
:) Tomorrow Im taking Samson for a walk. I have to add excercise to my diet, coz ive been eating rather well, just havent gotten around to excercising yet.
Also, Samson deserves a walk!
Monday, September 8, 2008
Hello.
Our Engagement party is on soon... the 4th of October, but Ive never been to one.
What do you do at an Engagement Party i wonder? Im sure there will be more posts about this in the near future!
Ive pretty much chosen the honeymoon place- all thats left now is to book it... its BEAUTIFUL and pretty close to home too- Mooloolaba which is on the sunshine coast.
It's about $300 per night and I think we're going to stay for 10 nights. So all our engagement money will probably go towards this :) It'll be so much fun!
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
The Dress.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Diet.
Finished!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
procrastination
haha- cuteness! This is Andrew, his brother David and me... I think I was 7.
Im going to go now...
Friday, August 22, 2008
Andrew
Not much wedding stuff being talked about recently.
So I think I will dedicate this post to him... because he is absolutely beautiful.
I Love Andrew so much... I can't remember if the creamy balloon face was my idea or his... but it was really fun, this was at the wynnum North Train station and ofcourse, Andrew being weird and brave wanted to take the balloon on the train with us- but I wiped the cream onto some nearby leaves out of my fear of being looked at-ness:)
Ok, so I dont have my drivers licence yet, even though Ive gone for it twice- stupid thorough Cleveland test-guys... This boy drives me around all the time. Although, he does complain about it quite alot. I am so thankful for it though. I love being in the car with him :)
This photo was taken at Mel and Rhys wedding.
They are a couple from Andrew's youth.
It was the first wedding we were invited to without our parents:)
This photo is at Andrew's formal with his school friends and their girlfriends... The girls were'nt allowed to go because we didnt go to Wynnum North High, but his preformal was really nice.
This photo was from my formal... Andrew wore his formal clothes, but he wasnt allowed to go to my formal either. :)